Gay sex guide
The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.
I’m scared of bottoming
Most gay men will examine bottoming at some moment. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off.
You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse act like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can obtain douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Try not to go overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can make you more vulnerable to STIs.
Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some men do utilize amyl nitrate (poppers) to relax the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:
- have been linked with an increased uncertainty of HIV transmission
- don’t mix with erection drugs love Viagra and may result in a heart attack.
Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to relax and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w
LGBTQIA+ Safer Sex Guide
Zero.
Disgracefully, that’s the number of U.S. states that call for sex education curriculums be comprehensively inclusive to LGBTQIA+ folks.
Most sex teaching programs, instead, assume that those receiving the knowledge are both heterosexual and cisgender. If there’s anything less cute than clogs, it’s that degree of homophobia and transphobia.
That’s why we worked with GLSEN, Advocates for Youth, and two queer sex educators to create a safer sex guide that understands the true complexity and diversity across gender identities, sexual orientation, attractions, and experiences.
Only 5 (ish) percent of LGBTQIA+ students saw any LGBTQIA+ representation in health class.
This guide is for the 95 percent of students whose many sexual health questions went unanswered in school.
It’s also for any LGBTQIA+ person who’s ever wondered:
- “What conversations should I have with a partner before sex?”
- “Is there a uncertainty of pregnancy or STI transmission during [insert sex act here]?”
- “What can I do to create sex even better?”
- “How do I become cozy with my own body?”
Or anything else connected to sexual health, sexual plea
Safe sexual health practices are a key part of health and wellness. Unfortunately, many LGBT people are erased from mainstream conversations about safe sex. As young people, many of us never received proper sex ed that was LGBTQIA+ inclusive. Plus, many of our healthcare providers might not fully grasp how to provide the best sexual health services for our community. This means that many woman-loving woman, gay, queer, as adv as transgender and nonbinary people have to rely on guesswork when it comes to practicing safe(r) sex and making the right decisions for our health, bodies, and sex lives.
What types of conversations should you have with a partner before having sex? Is there a risk of pregnancy on hormone replacement therapy (HRT)? Can you get an STI from using a sex toy? At FOLX Health, we want you to have the tools you need to train gender-affirming safe(r) sex, no matter what kind of sex you’re having. Diverse people deserve access to clear and concise sexual health information. Read on to learn more.
What is LGBTQ+ safe(r) sex?
What is the difference between shielded sex and safer sex? Some people use the term “safe sex” to talk about sexual health practices that redu
The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering alternative gay sex positions not only heightens the exposure but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s a uppermost or bottom?” Don’t fret. These terms might be common within the Queer community, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we’ve put together an ever-growing list of LGBTQ+ terminology.
At Bespoke Surgical, we believe about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you explore, it’s important to understand their differences:
- Affect the top and the bottom in distinct ways
- Bring out both meek or aggressive characteristics of each person
- Require an empathetic of both everyone’s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)
Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs. pain, as does open and honest communication. It’s key
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