Some people like to superior and bottom when they have sex, but what is this, who does what and do you have to do it?
The simple explanation is that the top is who puts their penis, fingers, or sex toy in someone. The bottom is the person who has something put in them.
It is a lot more complicated though. Someone can be a top without putting anything inside anyone. This means that someone can be a uppermost without having a dick. For example a gal could be a foremost or a bottom (or both).
It can also own a more literal definition. Like who is ‘on top’ in a sexual position.
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It can also be about what the dynamic is about who is deciding on what happens and taking the initiative. So someone who is more active is the top and someone who is more passive is the bottom.
It can also be about control. The top might have control over the other person about things like; what kind of sex that they hold, how they do it, or the relationship as a whole. This can be done with approval and it’s a thoughtful of kink. It can also be done without consent and so is just abusive.
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Top/Bottom
The terms top and bottom emerged as descriptors of a sexual binary in the gay leather culture of the 1950s and the bondage and sadomasochism (BDSM) culture of the 1960s. Originally, the top-bottom binary signified both sexual positions and influence relationships in which a top was a sexual aggressor and penetrator who often acted as the more forceful and dominant partner; the bottom represented the more submissive, typically penetrated, and often "punished" partner.
DEFINITION AND USE OF THE TERMS
In the BDSM community the term top indicates the dominant companion who inflicts pain on, enacts control over, or otherwise subjects his or her partner to acts associated with bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism. The word bottom indicates the receiver of such treatment. In these cases the terms are not gender-specific: A male or a female may act as a top or a bottom. Although the top is the dominant partner, the bottom often still has control. For example, a top who takes advice from the bottom's explicitly expressed wishes often is called a service top.
These terms evolved in the 1970s and 1980s as they were adapted by the gay community. In that community they
Top, Bottom, Verse: A Definitive Guide to Gay Terminologies
Gay culture is incredibly opulent and diverse and has a language all its own. Though the Internet has helped to diminish the sense of isolation that many gay people may have felt in the past, there’s still a certain code to online gay culture.
Understanding a several basic gay terminologies, especially ones that will aid you learn how to better communicate with lgbtq+ men, can help you get more out of your online dating experience.
So whether you’re an antique pro or just commencement to learn about same-sex attracted sex, here is a look at some of the most common lgbtq+ terminologies as we grant you the low-down on the difference between uppermost, bottom, and versatile
What Are the Gay Male Identities?
The most common gay male identities are Top, Bottom, and Verse. The definitions of each are relatively self-explanatory:
The top is the person in charge and/or performing the sexual act.
The bottom is the person taking control and/or receiving the sexual act.
The verse is someone who can go either way. They are the sexual chameleons of the gay world.
There are, of course, endless variations of these identities, but these are the th
Troye Sivan said he's a 'verse' during sex, not a 'top' or 'bottom.' Here's what the terms mean.
Troye Sivan, a singer known for his road "Bloom," recently set vertical rumors that he only enjoys receiving penetration during sex.
"I think in the sort of consciousness of gay people I'm some crazy power bottom or something, which is just not the case, and I just wanted to put that out there," Sivan, a gay bloke, said on Emily Ratajkowski's podcast "High Low."
Sivan said that he's a "verse," meaning he enjoys both penetrating a partner and being penetrated during sex.
"Verse," as well as the terms "top" and "bottom" are popular ways to describe sexual preferences in the queer community.
While the terms were originally used to describe the sexual preferences of queer men in the 1970s, more LGBTQ+ people have adopted the terms to chat about what they fancy in sex.
Lately, top/bottom/verse discourse has grown more observable on TikTok, where lgbtq+ people have been making videos describing the unusual struggles of each preference.
It's essential to note that each of these categories means something a little unlike to each person, s
