Gay ass pounding
In a sexual context, bottoming is the act of taking a dick (or a dick-shaped object) in your ass. When it comes to gay and bi men, a lot of people seem gentle of obsessed with active out who’s a top/giver and who’s a bottom/receiver, but in reality many MSM (men who include sex with men) accomplish both and some carry out neither. In 2021, it’s painfully heteronormative to presume that sexual intercourse has to involve a hole being filled by something cock-shaped.
On one level, bottoming is really no great deal – if you like riding dick, proceed ahead and ride it. But on another, butt-fucking is still cloaked in myth and stigma. “There’s an association that those who bottom are feminine and those who uppermost are masculine,” says Ian Howley, CEO of the health and wellbeing nonprofit LGBT HERO. “And we all know where that stigma comes from: Hello, toxic masculinity.”
Happily, Howley says this reductive presumption is finally dying out as we all become more open-minded. “You now spot lots of ‘masculine’ men who enjoy bottoming, including straight men who finally found out just how much pleasure they can get from their arse,” he says. Some even like to define themselves as a “p
Life on the Bottom
I enjoyed a short-lived career on the bottom. My college boyfriend’s family lived in a duplex on Park Avenue, where we’d often slip away on weekends. Meals were rich and plentiful — foie gras, profiteroles, double magnums of Riesling, etc. — all of which I eagerly imbibed. Following one such decadent feast my freshman year, when we were still very much in the honeymoon phase of our first gay partnership, Dan and I retired to his bedroom and got to work. For weeks we’d been easing into penetration with me on the bottom, but the pain had proven prohibitive. Also at participate was acute paranoia of involuntary defecation, something I’d been assured was a common, yet unwarranted, relate to of bottoms.
Presumably though, most surveyed hadn’t recently gorged on three helpings of fattened goose liver. It’s difficult to look someone in the eye after shitting their childhood bed — let alone date them for seven more years afterward — but that’s exactly what happened. What didn’t happen — and hasn’t since, really — was me back on the bottom.
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Maybe that’s why I’ve maintained an enviable respect for men and women who regularly acquire fucke
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1. Lube
The arse does not produce its own lubrication.
This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to cease damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to aid protect it from infections.
Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.
2. You
The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you sense safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.
Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people involved are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good girlfriend and you can’t trial pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).
3. R
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An ass pounding is hard, dirty anal sex. A woman who loves an ass pounding is a true slut .
Kathy loves a good strenuous ass pounding. She needs to feel a cock pumping her hot small married ass as often as possible. She always wears short tight skirts to show off her sexy round ass and she flashes her soaked bald cunt to men and boys all the time. Just last weekend she let 2 sky-high school boys pound her dirty ass in her garage before she went to work, When she got to work her boss told her to bend over his desk. He could see the boys cum dripping from her used ass. Kathy fingered her used fuckholes while he watched. Then he slammed his strenuous cock deep into her asshole as she moaned and begged for more. He called her a filthy whore as he shot more cum up her ass. She smiled as he wiped his cock all over her slutty blonde hair.
by btld January 13, 2008
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