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Cynthia Nixon: I'm gay by choice
Former "Sex and the City" star Cynthia Nixon is holding firm to her statement that she has chosen to be homosexual, although her comments hold sparked controversy in the gay and lesbian community.
"For me, it is a choice," Nixon says in a New York Times Magazine profile. "I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice, and you don’t get to define my gayness for me."
Her statement hasn't gone over well with gay activists. Writing in AMERICAblog Gay, John Aravosis says that Nixon, who had a long association with a man that produced two children before coming out as lgbtq+ in 2004, is actually bisexual. "She needs to learn how to opt her words better, because she just fell into a right-wing trap, willingly," he writes, "When the religious right says it's a choice, they signify you quite literally decide your sexual orientation, you can change it at will, and that's bull."
He went on to utter, "Every religious right hatemonger is now going to quote this woman every single time they yearn to deny us our civil rights."
Nixon seemed to anticipate the controversy when she gave her interview to the New York Times, saying then "W
Is Cynthia Nixon’s Sexuality Really a Choice?
Sex and the City alum Cynthia Nixon was profiled in the New York Times over the weekend, and the out-and-proud actress’ comments about her sexuality being a choice are drawing the ire of some critics within the LGBT activist community.
Here’s the (regrettably lengthy) section in question:
“I gave a speech recently, an empowerment speech to a gay audience, and it included the line ‘I’ve been straight and I’ve been gay, and lgbtq+ is better.’ And they tried to get me to change it, because they said it implies that homosexuality can be a choice. And for me, it is a choice. I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice, and you don’t get to define my gayness for me. A certain section of our community is very concerned that it not be seen as a choice, because if it’s a choice, then we could opt out. I say it doesn’t matter if we flew here or we swam here, it matters that we are here and we are one organization and let us end trying to make a litmus test for who is considered gay and who is not.” Her face was red and her arms were waving. “As you can tell,” she said, “I am very annoyed about this issue. Why can’t it be
For Cynthia Nixon, Being Lgbtq+ Is A Choice
ByAva Kiai
When Cynthia Nixon, best recognizable for her role as Miranda in Sex and the City, sat down with Alex Witchel of the New York Times last month, she managed to both anger the LGBT community and present fodder for the intolerant and the homophobic. In commenting on her amorous life, the actress said, “I’ve been straight and I’ve been gay, and gay is better.”
Since 2004, Nixon has been in a relationship with Christine Marinoni. The couple had a child, Max Ellington Nixon-Marinoni, with the assist of a sperm donor last year. This partnership came a year after she split with her former partner, Daniel Mozes, with whom she conceived two children. In reflecting on her “switch in sexual orientation,” she said the following:
“I gave a speech recently, an empowerment speech to a male lover audience, and it included the line ‘I’ve been straight and I’ve been gay, and gay is better.’ And they tried to get me to change it, because they said it implies that homosexuality can be a choice. And for me, it is a decision. I understand that for many people it’s not, but for me it’s a choice, and you don’t get to explain my gayness for me. A certain s
Cynthia Nixon, Gay and Proud
I'm one of fourteen Americans who has never watched an entire episode of "Sex and the City." The high heels and extreme grooming, the squealing girl talk, the pursuit of men-booooring. Give me a rerun of The Wire any day.
So I had to be brought up to cultural speed when Cynthia Nixon, who played the show's sexy lawyer Miranda, made a little splash in The New York Times Magazine this past weekend by saying that, for her, being gay is a choice. Of course, the preferred LGBT movement line is that we were all "born this way"-and so her comments sent the Maoist portions of the LGBT reflection police into an enraged buzzing fury. Here's the relevant article, which is long because it is extremely thoughtful:
I gave a speech recently, an empowerment speech to a queer audience, and it included the line 'I've been straight and I've been gay, and gay is better.' And they tried to get me to change it, because they said it implies that homosexuality can be a choice. And for me, it is a selection. I understand that for many people it's not, but for me it's a choice, and you don't get to describe my gayness for me. A certain section of our community is very concerne
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