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Taormino, Tristan. "My Lgbtq+ Boyfriend". A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten: A Memoir, Modern York, USA: Duke University Press, 2023, pp. 234-238. https://doi.org/10.1515/9781478027218-039
Taormino, T. (2023). My Gay Boyfriend. In A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten: A Memoir (pp. 234-238). New York, USA: Duke University Press. https://doi.org/10.1515/9781478027218-039
Taormino, T. 2023. My Lgbtq+ Boyfriend. A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten: A Memoir. Brand-new York, USA: Duke University Press, pp. 234-238. https://doi.org/10.1515/9781478027218-039
Taormino, Tristan. "My Same-sex attracted Boyfriend" In A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten: A Memoir, 234-238. New York, USA: Duke University Press, 2023. https://doi.org/10.1515/9781478027218-039
Taormino T. My Gay Boyfriend. In: A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten: A Memoir. New York, USA: Duke University Press; 2023. p.234-238. https://doi.org/10.1515/9781478027218-039
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Does Your Gay Boyfriend Disregard You?
This month’s blog upload features my answer to a question I received for my “Ask Adam” relationship advice column at gay.net.
Dear Adam,
My boyfriend surfs the web while we watch TV together, never comes up with a plan for the weekend, and spends way too much time thinking about work. Otherwise he’s a good guy and I’m lucky to have him. But I’m afraid if I bring these issues up I’ll push him away or hurt him. How can I acquire him to pay me more attention?
Signed,
Annoyed in Akron
Dear Annoyed in Akron,
Here are the six most dangerous words to explain a LGBTQ relationship:
“We don’t talk about our relationship”.
Many couples can spend years—even decades – talking about a wide range of topics like politics, show, or their friends — but can’t talk about their relationship.
These are the distressed couples I often see in my couples counseling practice. The approach of “we don’t converse about it” eventually leads to big relationship trouble.
Men rarely receive any practice, modeling, or support for talking about their relationships. You can see it on TV: even the Real Housewives can use an entire season talking about their
Boyfriend Experience (BFE)
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Everyone Thinks My Gorgeous Boyfriend/girlfriend is Gay. I’m Starting to Believe Them.
How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous!
Dear How to Do It,
My boyfriend is what a ‘90s rom-com writer would call “a very lovely guy.” He’s got acute, androgynous bone structure, large eyes, and long eyelashes, and even though he does a lot of manual labor, he’s more wiry than muscly. He was raised in a house of only women, and the combination of appearance and feminine mannerisms lead a lot of people to assume he’s gay. This included me when we first met, and he had to pursue me very explicitly for me to get he was interested in women. This has been an issue his whole life, and he’s got lots of polite and not-so-polite responses to the assumption, depending on the situation.
The thing is, it chips away at my confidence whenever my otherwise liberal and well-meaning friends and relatives sit me down for a confidential chat to tell me I’m his beard. His friends are used to this, and they sometimes tease him if a guy tries to acquire him a drink, but they don’t seem to think it’s serious. He says he’s attracted to me and
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